Call backup_restore_header from backup_restore_prepare, there is no
sense in requiring the user to call them separately. Also store all
parameters in restore_info object as special '$OPTIONS$' VM to not
require passing them twice (with all the chances for the errors).
Also some major cleanups: Reduce some more code duplication
(verify_hmac, simplify backup_restore_prepare). Rename
backup_dir/backup_tmpdir variables to better match its purpose. Rename
backup_do_copy back to backup_do. Require QubesVm object (instead of VM
name) as appvm param.
